Women Empowerment Culturist, Multi National Award Winning and Internationally Acclaimed Authoress, Mentor, Suicide Prevention Expert Mayaa SH shares a message to focus on Trusting Intuition and Paving Efforts towards Goals in life ahead of the New Year. Mayaa is a prominent figure in contemporary Indian literature and a passionate advocate for social justice. She is a celebrated poetess and a women and human rights activist, known for her profound insights on various themes, including hope, peace, and unity .She often emphasises on the importance of self-reflection, kindness, and community during festive occasions like Christmas and New Year.
"Trusting intuition and pacing efforts are crucial for achieving life goals because they foster self-awareness, optimize decision-making, and promote sustainable progress. Intuition, often described as a "Gut feeling" or "Inner Knowing," provides rapid insights based on accumulated experience and unconscious processing, especially in complex or uncertain situations where pure logic may fall short. Pacing, on the other hand, involves accepting one's current circumstances and adjusting the speed of progress to align with personal capacity and external realities, preventing burnout and fostering long-term commitment..."
We must trust our intuition and pace our efforts towards our final goal in life because it allows for more authentic decision-making, helps differentiate between genuine guidance and fear, and ensures sustainable progress by aligning actions with personal capacity and long-term vision. This integrated approach prevents the pitfalls of solely relying on external validation or rigid timelines, leading to greater fulfillment and success .
The Role of Intuition :
Intuition is a powerful, non-analytical form of understanding that can instantaneously grasp truths, often without explicit reasoning. It draws on unconscious cognitive processes, pattern recognition, and heuristics, making it particularly valuable for high-stakes decisions or when data is insufficient. Ignoring intuition can lead to regret, as it often taps into deeper understanding beyond conscious logic.
Key aspects of Trusting Intuition include:
Differentiating from Fear:
What often masquerades as intuition is actually fear or anxiety. True intuition is typically a calm, unwavering whisper, while fear often presents as urgency, scarcity, or a desire to shrink from growth . Learning to identify and name fear is critical for trusting genuine intuitive signals .
Positive Growth and Trust:
Intuition is often right about who to trust and can guide individuals toward positive growth, passion, and connection.If an intuitive feeling leads to excitement, engagement, or a sense of purpose, it's generally worth exploring .
Operating After Effort:
Intuition operates best after some effort has been invested, rather than as an excuse to quit before starting . It can remind individuals to reconnect with their values and strive for their best selves .
Physical Manifestations:
Intuition can manifest as physical sensations, such as "butterflies in the stomach" (signaling importance), a "sinking feeling" (indicating misalignment), or a "sense of clarity" (affirming the right path) . Listening to these bodily signals can provide valuable insights .
Cultivating Intuition:
Practices like meditation, dream journaling, and spending quiet, singular-focus time can sharpen intuitive abilities by reducing mental noise and increasing receptivity to inner guidance . Reflecting on past experiences also enhances pattern recognition, which is vital for effective intuition .
The Importance of Pacing Efforts :
Pacing efforts involves accepting one's current reality and adjusting the speed of progress to align with personal capacity, circumstances, and long-term goals . It's about focusing on the "journey" rather than solely the "destination," which helps reduce unpleasant emotions and fosters a more sustainable approach to goal attainment.
Key aspects of pacing efforts include:
Avoiding Comparison:
Comparing oneself to others, like successful figures such as Oprah Winfrey, can lead to feelings of scarcity, doubt, and resentment. Trusting one's own pace means recognizing unique circumstances and defining success on personal terms .
Focusing on Controllables:
Pacing aligns with Stoic philosophy by emphasizing focus on what is within one's control (opinions, actions, reactions) and letting go of what is not . This prevents wasted energy and promotes effective action.
Savoring the Moment and Small Wins:
Rather than relentlessly chasing the end result, pacing encourages savoring the present moment and celebrating small victories along the way . This provides positive reinforcement, maintains motivation, and makes the process enjoyable .
Embracing Failure:
Failure is an inevitable part of growth and can be a powerful teacher . By viewing failure as an ally and learning from it, individuals can make necessary course corrections and strengthen their resolve.
Strategic Pauses and Pivots:
It's essential to recognize when to "press pause" and reassess . This allows for adjustments, prevents burnout, and ensures that efforts remain aligned with evolving needs and visions. Replenishing energy through rest and self-care is crucial for long-term sustainability.
Let The Moments Breathe...
The world outside kept whispering fast,
"Hurry up, time's running out at last!"
But deep inside, a voice so calm and clear,
Whispered softly, "Trust the timings, dear."
So she paused, and let the moments breathe,
Her soul aligned with life's silent sheath.
No rush, no stress, just patience' gentle art,
And perfect time brought her heart's smart.
Years went by, and doubts crept like night,
"Too slow, you'll miss it, what's your fight?"
But still she smiled, holding inner peace,
Trusting time's rhythm, her soul's release.
And then one dawn, like petals unfolding slow,
The right doors opened, her dreams began to glow.
The world said "Finally!" but she just smiled,
"My time, my pace," her heart replied mild.
By integrating both intuition and mindful pacing, individuals can navigate their life's journey with greater clarity, resilience, and a deeper connection to their authentic selves, ultimately leading to more meaningful and successful outcomes .
About The Author
Mayaa SH is a prominent Indian author, women's rights activist, and social champion, recognized for her extensive contributions to contemporary literature and her advocacy for gender equality and women's empowerment. Born in Kolkata, West Bengal, into a prominent Army family, she writes in both English and Hindi. Her career is marked by numerous achievements, including being an internationally acclaimed authoress on women-centric issues.Known as Lady Gandhi and a Trailblazer in the field of developmental feminism and contemporary literature, Mayaa SH is an Indian author who has quintessentially changed the tidal waves of time by openly and frankly writing bold about contemporary issues of women and the experiences of numerous women. Mayaa is a part of a generation of Indian writers whose work centre on observations and experiences of many rather than colonial experiences, and her powerful writings, poetry, memoirs, and essays has brought her respect and national and international acclaims in equal measures. Mayaa SH is a prominent Indian poetess, memoirist and a known name in Contemporary Literature whose work is known for her open discussion on women’s rights and voices and experience of being an Indian woman. Most of her writings deal with women living in a patriarchal society (male-dominated society). Female sensibilities are deeply spread through her writings along with her extensive work for gender neutrality. Mayaa SH is best known for getting logical congruence for understanding the role of tradition and societal dogma in shaping women's lives and identities speaks on how she underwent character assassination and the resistance she culminated as the urge to not react. In her words, "It's natural to want to defend yourself, but this can often make the situation worse. Reacting can give the person who is attacking you the attention they want, and it can also make you look guilty or defensive." Mayaa SH also known as Mayaa Devi, Mayaa Tai, Mayaa Di,Mayaa Audio SH, Pushpa ‘The Fire’, Padma Of The East, Lady Robin Hood, Lady Karl Marx, MS Dhoni Of Writing, Lady Singham and Lady Gandhi is a known name in Contemporary Literature. She is a Multi-National Award Winner, a thirteen times a World Record Holder, An Artist, a Podcaster, a Record Chart Topping International Fastest Anthology Co-Authoress and has been chosen as number 1 The Modern Literary Stars Of India, 2022 by Cherry Book Awards for making valuable contribution to Contemporary Indian Literature. She has Won In Memorable Performance in the category termed as ‘Other than English write ups “ for her appreciation of hard work, creativity and dedication in Grand Christmas Competition 2.0 which has been a world record event of the largest creative event hosted online with more than 1000+ participants. Mayaa SH is a Women Empowerment Culturist and a gender equality exponent to position and contextualize her work within the 2030 Agenda for Sustainable Development. She has depicted gender inclusivity and equality through her certifications from the United Nations and powerful writings on Feminism, Gender Equality, Transforming Vision Into Action: Transmogrification on Transgender Community and Mental Health Awareness Topics. Her work depicts the identity, economic and social freedom of many. She has co-authored more two hundred and fifty plus anthologies with fifteen plus solo books and has been aligned with more than 85 publication houses. Mayaa SH has been featured in several magazines and women oriented like Tejaswi -The Imperishable on Women Power and Honour including few international magazines. Her first poem “The Candle In The Wind” made her win an Award at the National Level. She navigates many women through stress by deploying talking as a medium to combat stress and fear. In the words of Mayaa "Someone has said that courage is not the absence of fear, it is a decision made by you that there is something else, which is more important than your fear. Don’t let your doubts, fears and failures overwhelm you. Don’t be afraid to act. make plans. Change is not possible without taking steps. Understand your interests, values, thoughts and dreams. Don’t be afraid of mistakes. Learn to be calm if you don’t understand something, take someone’s advice. Listen to others too. Instead of sadness and anger, choose the path that leads to empathy and compassion. Don’t compare with others. Winston S. Churchill says, “No victory is final and defeat is not the end.” Courage is the continuation of this sequence." Mayaa SH holds the distinction of being the most celebrated and most revered of Indian women authoresses and poets. A versatile genius a poet, a novelist, an essayist, a columnist and a podcaster she has been a favourite with her readers and critics alike. She is known for her bold expression of social behaviour which otherwise is labelled as brutally real. Mayaa SH is a legendary in epitomizing the modernization of the Indian feminine poetic psyche. Her writing is a very strong expression of feminine sensibility. Her work emphasizes themes of hope, peace, and the importance of making informed decisions in challenging situations.Mayaa SH's journey is defined by her evolution as a multifaceted advocate and literary figure, driven by a commitment to social justice, women's empowerment, and mental health awareness. Her path began with a strong foundation in literature, earning national recognition early in her career with her poem "The Candle In The Wind." This initial success paved the way for a prolific writing career, where she has authored and conceptualized numerous books, including self-help guides like "Swayam," primarily aimed at empowering women, instilling self-belief, and providing guidance for navigating life's challenges, especially those related to trauma, abuse, and societal pressures.Her advocacy extends beyond literature, positioning her as a "Literary Empowerment Campaigner" and a "Social Activist" who actively challenges patriarchal norms and advocates for equal rights. Mayaa SH aligns her work with the 2030 Agenda for Sustainable Development, emphasizing the importance of women's education, health, identity, economic independence, and social freedom. She is a vocal exponent of gender equality, addressing sensitive topics such as feminism, the transgender community, and mental health awareness.
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